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Text by Magdalena Wierzbicka, "Tattoo"

Visual by Julia Walusiak

“It is sad, but as an artist, the best work you do in life is usually at worst times, normal people would think that creativity is born from happiness -

but no, that’s usually not the case.” - Ola

 

Dear journal and its collective readership,

 

After talking to Ola, I finally understood why I had struggled to write this piece,

I was writing it at the wrong time.

My creativity didn’t flow well from my happiness. Now at a stressful time, under intense pressure of deadlines,

I find myself inspired to tell you about

a time I met a tattoo artist - OLA,

from whom I have stolen that quote,

an artist who’s sadness turned into passion.

 

“It started when I was depressed, I was 17 and didn’t have a will to function. Tattooing suddenly became the only activity that would get me out of bed.

It was the only moment I would forget about all my problems, run away from everything. It became a ritual, I would put on music and practice - my mind would soak up the tattoo gun, the ink, everything… I noticed it relaxed me and drove me to improve. Once I started

I couldn’t stop because it brought me, and still does, so much joy.”

 

She tattoos to techno music and sees clients as walking moldable canvases. After our 2.5-hour talk I feel entitled to say, she brings creative nuance to how tattoos can shape the body.

While looking at her clients her vision unravels, an idea that will later outline, magnify and strengthen the desired parts of their physique.

 

“I love to decorate the silhouette, extract shapes, enhance the butt or draw out a pretty waist. [...] I always knew I wanted to create abstract tattoos - I call them Baby Tribal”

 

Her art is abstract - a combination of

a ‘Tribal” style from the 90s heavily taken over by men, while her vision completely transforms the tone of that tired genre, amplified by outstanding detail and an individual take on figure.

 

Shaping bodies is her poison, while skin is her medium.

 

How is it that it has become one?

 

She started from pure passion, tattooing friends for free and a constant drive to improve. To this day her work is all about commitment, it consumes her with perfectionism, vision and patterns. While peeking at an open picture of her tattoo on my computer, neighboring my tab with our Video call, I tried to understand how decorating a body visualises for her with such ease - my skin suddenly demanding a pattern.

 

“...you know when you go to sleep and you see dark when you close your eyes,

I always saw these patterns, like the Ratatouille chef experiencing flavours, except instead of tasting it, I draw it”

 

But Ola’s inspiration is not fully internal, through observation and her socially thriving nature, she draws from the world. Her style stands at an intersection of her intricate visions and an observation of other tattoo artists’ work, making her constantly evolve.

 

“I still kind of don’t do what I am aiming for, the bar is constantly raised, I am very self-critical. I always want it to be better, more detailed, I am constantly aware that I can make better designs.“

 

While we further converse of her inspirations, she mentions the techno culture, electronic music and techno parties she attends that energise her:

 

“(during raves) People get excited about my tattoos, and I can observe other tattooed people there, which fuels me, helps me create those weird things in

my head.“

 

Ola’s Baby Tribals are big scale designs, they require large areas of skin and long tattooing sessions. She admits that the job is physically, mentally, and creatively brutal. “that is why people who do this (tattooing) for money, quickly quit” Intense 8-hour sessions in one tense position, never resting hands, maintaining a hyper focus while dealing with a stranger’s body, blood, sweat

and skin, all requiring patience and

self-discipline. From an outsider’s perspective the job is mainly creative,

in reality the body is removed from its usual social context, people find a newfound trust for strangers and their art, all while pain becomes ever-present.

 

“I don’t have time to step outside for some fresh air, the whole day I sit in disinfection, in the odour of sweat, skin, blood and ink, the whole day in the same room.”

 

What comes in aid during long exhausting days is conversations with clients, Ola has a refreshingly chill approach to people (radiating even through my laptop screen). In her space there are no taboo topics. While setting boundaries, She establishes comfort to listen and talk about anything the client desires, often leading to long conversations and clients staying after her work is finished.

 

“... once I had a client who walked me home, waited for me while I did grocery shopping and bought me a gluten free cake on the way, remembering I’ve mentioned it before”.

 

Ola’s tattoos that often extend to hidden parts of the body, demand making clients feel comfortable even in intimate situations. “I know my Instagram is controversial, I know there are naked boobs there, but I like sexuality, it is just who I am. I love girls who are not afraid and we can work on posing for my pictures. The ones that are, I tell to pose in a certain way, guide them, to fully show off the tattoo. I think Instagram is 50% of the success, when a silhouette is at play with the tattoo, it grabs attention”. One would think that her long straining sessions and motivated by the pressure of time, in reality they’re scheduled due to her need to see the completed work on the spot. “I cannot wait to see the finished product, I need to take a picture and see how it looks, that is why, I sometimes do tattoos in one day sessions instead of two, even though I could earn more money by splitting it. I simply cannot wait”.

 

Her relationship with clients is what

I was mostly eager to interrogate her on. Working with someone’s body is not easy, but working with someone’s character is even harder. She encounters strange situations - some she laughs about or forgets, while others she still recalls today. “I once had a client that asked me a day before a tattoo if instead of paying me he could give me his adidas tracksuit, he was so funny”. While clients cross boundaries, Ola’s need for honesty, in today’s world stripped of communication, is refreshing. “Even though these are my designs,

I love people who will tell me straight up what we could change or what they dislike”.

 

Recently Ola’s designs have gained an international following. When asked about tattoo exchanges she said she always receives both Polish and international clients in her studio, expressing her gratitude for those who travel to get her tattoos.

 

“It is incredible that someone from abroad comes solely to get a tattoo from me, paying for flights and staying in Poland for a few days, it feels abstract to me. I am still shocked… even though

I believe in myself and my skills, that for some people it is worth that money.”

 

With that sweet accent on self-worth and confidence I conclude tattooless but with a buzzing skin for patterns, in awe of what Ola can do on living canvas.

To everyone from the reading collective whose skin feels suddenly empty,

I recommend opening Instagram to find Ola’s creative journal.

 

“It is sad, but as an artist, the best work you do in life is usually at worst times, normal people would think that creativity is born from happiness - but no, that’s usually not the case.” - Ola

 

Dear journal and its collective readership,

 

After talking to Ola, I finally understood why I had struggled to write this piece, I was writing it at the wrong time. My creativity didn’t flow well from my happiness. Now at a stressful time, under intense pressure of deadlines, I find myself inspired to tell you about a time I met a tattoo artist - OLA, from whom I have stolen that quote, an artist who’s sadness turned into passion.

 

“It started when I was depressed, I was 17 and didn’t have a will to function. Tattooing suddenly became the only activity that would get me out of bed. It was the only moment I would forget about all my problems, run away from everything. It became a ritual, I would put on music and practice - my mind would soak up the tattoo gun, the ink, everything… I noticed it relaxed me and drove me to improve. Once I started I couldn’t stop because it brought me, and still does, so much joy.”

 

She tattoos to techno music and sees clients as walking moldable canvases. After our 2.5-hour talk I feel entitled to say, she brings creative nuance to how tattoos can shape the body. While looking at her clients her vision unravels, an idea that will later outline, magnify and strengthen the desired parts of their physique.

 

“I love to decorate the silhouette, extract shapes, enhance the butt or draw out a pretty waist. [...] I always knew I wanted to create abstract tattoos - I call them Baby Tribal”

 

Her art is abstract - a combination of a ‘Tribal” style from the 90s heavily taken over by men, while her vision completely transforms the tone of that tired genre, amplified by outstanding detail and an individual take on figure.

 

Shaping bodies is her poison, while skin is her medium. How is it that it has become one?

 

She started from pure passion, tattooing friends for free and a constant drive to improve. To this day her work is all about commitment, it consumes her with perfectionism, vision and patterns. While peeking at an open picture of her tattoo on my computer, neighboring my tab with our Video call, I tried to understand how decorating a body visualises for her with such ease - my skin suddenly demanding a pattern.

 

“...you know when you go to sleep and you see dark when you close your eyes, I always saw these patterns, like the Ratatouille chef experiencing flavours, except instead of tasting, it I draw it”

 

But Ola’s inspiration is not fully internal, through observation and her socially thriving nature, she draws from the world. Her style stands at an intersection of her intricate visions and an observation of other tattoo artists’ work, making her constantly evolve.

 

“I still kind of don’t do what I am aiming for, the bar is constantly raised, I am very self-critical. I always want it to be better, more detailed, I am constantly aware that I can make better designs.“

 

While we further converse of her inspirations, she mentions the techno culture, electronic music and techno parties she attends that energise her:

 

“(during raves) People get excited about my tattoos, and I can observe other tattooed people there, which fuels me, helps me create those weird things in my head.“

 

Ola’s Baby Tribals are big scale designs, they require large areas of skin and long tattooing sessions. She admits that the job is physically, mentally, and creatively brutal. “that is why people who do this (tattooing) for money, quickly quit” Intense 8-hour sessions in one tense position, never resting hands, maintaining a hyper focus while dealing with a stranger’s body, blood, sweat and skin, all requiring patience and self-discipline. From an outsider’s perspective the job is mainly creative, in reality the body is removed from its usual social context, people find a newfound trust for strangers and their art, all while pain becomes ever-present.

 

“I don’t have time to step outside for some fresh air, the whole day I sit in disinfection, in the odour of sweat, skin, blood and ink, the whole day in the same room.”

 

What comes in aid during long exhausting days is conversations with clients, Ola has a refreshingly chill approach to people (radiating even through my laptop screen). In her space there are no taboo topics. While setting boundaries, She establishes comfort to listen and talk about anything the client desires, often leading to long conversations and clients staying after her work is finished. “... once I had a client who walked me home, waited for me while I did grocery shopping and bought me a gluten free cake on the way, remembering I’ve mentioned it before”.

 

Ola’s tattoos that often extend to hidden parts of the body, demand making clients feel comfortable even in intimate situations. “I know my Instagram is controversial, I know there are naked boobs there, but I like sexuality, it is just who I am. I love girls who are not afraid and we can work on posing for my pictures. The ones that are, I tell to pose in a certain way, guide them, to fully show off the tattoo. I think Instagram is 50% of the success, when a silhouette is at play with the tattoo, it grabs attention”. One would think that her long straining sessions and motivated by the pressure of time, in reality they’re scheduled due to her need to see the completed work on the spot. “I cannot wait to see the finished product, I need to take a picture and see how it looks, that is why, I sometimes do tattoos in one day sessions instead of two, even though I could earn more money by splitting it. I simply cannot wait”.

 

Her relationship with clients is what I was mostly eager to interrogate her on. Working with someone’s body is not easy, but working with someone’s character is even harder. She encounters strange situations - some she laughs about or forgets, while others she still recalls today. “I once had a client that asked me a day before a tattoo if instead of paying me he could give me his adidas tracksuit, he was so funny”. While clients cross boundaries, Ola’s need for honesty, in today’s world stripped of communication, is refreshing. “Even though these are my designs, I love people who will tell me straight up what we could change or what they dislike”.

 

Recently Ola’s designs have gained an international following. When asked about tattoo exchanges she said she always receives both Polish and international clients in her studio, expressing her gratitude for those who travel to get her tattoos.

 

“It is incredible that someone from abroad comes solely to get a tattoo from me, paying for flights and staying in Poland for a few days, it feels abstract to me. I am still shocked… even though I believe in myself and my skills, that for some people it is worth that money.”

 

With that sweet accent on self-worth and confidence I conclude tattooless but with a buzzing skin for patterns, in awe of what Ola can do on living canvas. To everyone from the reading collective whose skin feels suddenly empty, I recommend opening Instagram to find Ola’s creative journal.

 

Text by Klaudia Felicja

Visual by Julia Walusiak

I promised myself not to think about them, not to write about them, not to speak about them.

I choose silence—perhaps out of respect for myself—and continue the disciplined process of

repressing it all.

 

To utter even a single word, I have to return to the mental landscape where I buried every

memory. I stare into the darkness behind my eyelids, searching for scenes I still haven’t

managed to get rid of. I open those heavy doors whose rust seems to suggest I shouldn’t

step through them. In the fog, I walk toward the plots. Silence fills me; it feels like standing

over someone’s grave, overwhelmed with grief towards myself and the world because the

story never had a chance to unfold the way we had planned. The silence tightens my

stomach, but it no longer twists my face into a grimace.

 

There’s that first, puppy-love time. To be honest, I don’t remember it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Here lies the first one that truly mattered. My lesson—the one that splits life into everything

before and everything after. The soul goes into a night so dark and so deep that every flame

breaking through the darkness seems like a world being born anew. My process of
repression worked, so now I have to tidy up; the candles burned out long ago. I understand

now why this love lies here. It lasted a long time, but I did not love the way one should—if

I loved at all.

 

Here is my favourite one. I needed somewhere to place the fact that I did, once, love before.

I told her: I fell in love with you, maybe in the very same hour I heard your name for the first

time. My endless reserves of love wandered like a homeless person longing for relief from

the cold. Once, I brought her artificial flowers. They remain here, because they fulfilled their

purpose—from the irresponsible choice, to the trembling eyelids in the morning,

oversensitive to the light. She did exactly what she was needed for.

 

I watched her back and the way she raised her hands, so sure of her answer. Her braids,

her shirt, her ambition, her laughter. The ordinary things that make us grow feelings for

someone. Already then, the most important thing in the world was to know her fully, just as

she would know me.

 

That look happened—and with every following one, I became more certain that tiny new

worlds were being born. And up to that moment, it seemed she was the world itself, the only

world. Nothing she said felt new, even though I was hearing it for the first time. I kept

thinking: I know this from somewhere… It felt less like getting to know her and more like

remembering her. But I could not figure out from where.

 

This place, I especially forbade myself to visit. I am not really here, yet the candles keep

lighting themselves. I blow them out—and again, as if it were completely independent of

anything I do, say, or think, they reignite. Here, silence is absolute. Not the “it’s not worth

wasting words” kind. No. I simply cannot speak of it well. In her case, the silence is different.

 

When one experiences infinity, it can only be described through silence.

 

It struck me like lightning out of a clear sky. I carry the memory of that gaze in me against my

own will. I no longer remember the color of her eyes, but I cannot free myself from the fact

that I saw everything in them—not just her, not just myself, though I did not see my reflection

there at all, but a portal to infinity. The entire mystery of existence revealed itself in those

moments when I looked into her eyes.

 

Eventually, I went mad, starved of answers to the one question that tormented me. I decided

that the lack of an answer was the answer I had needed all along, and a bucket of cold,

refreshing water poured over me. I gasped—and with the exhale, all the mysticism I had

assigned to the situation dissolved. It had all been my own creation, something to help me

survive. I learned new words to describe what had happened inside me—this time taken

from rigid psychological terminology. Planning the new year without shame, I drew a

crossed-out heart on a piece of paper and labelled it: the time of reason. And honestly,

it even worked a little. I’m not nobody this year.

 

And well, the candle lit itself again.

 

With all my heart, I wish more graves would appear in this plot, but no one is worth anything

if I try to grasp them only through reason. My point of reference, after all, reaches into

infinity.

I promised myself not to think about them, not to write about them, not to speak about them. I choose silence—perhaps out of respect for myself—

and continue the disciplined process of

repressing it all.

 

To utter even a single word, I have to return to the mental landscape where

I buried every memory. I stare into the darkness behind my eyelids, searching for scenes I still haven’t managed to get rid of. I open those heavy doors whose rust seems to suggest I shouldn’t

step through them. In the fog, I walk toward the plots. Silence fills me; it feels like standing over someone’s grave, overwhelmed with grief towards myself and the world because the story never had a chance to unfold the way we had planned. The silence tightens my stomach, but it no longer twists my

face into a grimace.

 

There’s that first, puppy-love time.

To be honest, I don’t remember it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Here lies the first one that truly mattered. My lesson—the one that

splits life into everything before and everything after. The soul goes into

a night so dark and so deep that every flame breaking through the darkness seems like a world being born anew.

My process of repression worked,

so now I have to tidy up; the candles burned out long ago. I understand now why this love lies here. It lasted a long time, but I did not love the way one should—if I loved at all.

 

Here is my favourite one. I needed somewhere to place the fact that I did, once, love before. I told her: I fell in love with you, maybe in the very same hour

I heard your name for the first

time. My endless reserves of love wandered like a homeless person longing for relief from the cold.

Once, I brought her artificial flowers.

They remain here, because they fulfilled their purpose—from the irresponsible choice, to the trembling eyelids in the morning,oversensitive to the light. She did exactly what she was needed for.

 

I watched her back and the way she raised her hands, so sure of her answer. Her braids, her shirt, her ambition,

her laughter. The ordinary things that make us grow feelings for someone.

Already then, the most important thing in the world was to know her fully,

just as she would know me.

That look happened—and with every following one, I became more certain that tiny new worlds were being born. And up to that moment, it seemed she was the world itself, the only world. Nothing she said felt new, even though

I was hearing it for the first time.

I kept thinking: I know this from somewhere… It felt less like getting to know her and more like remembering her. But I could not figure out from where.

 

This place, I especially forbade myself to visit. I am not really here, yet the candles keep lighting themselves. I blow them out—and again, as if it were completely independent of anything

I do, say, or think, they reignite.

Here, silence is absolute. Not the

“it’s not worth wasting words” kind. No.

I simply cannot speak of it well.

In her case, the silence is different.

 

When one experiences infinity, it can only be described through silence.

It struck me like lightning out of a clear sky. I carry the memory of that gaze in me against my own will. I no longer remember the color of her eyes, but

I cannot free myself from the fact

that I saw everything in them—not just her, not just myself, though I did not see my reflection there at all, but a portal to infinity. The entire mystery of existence revealed itself in those moments when

I looked into her eyes.

 

Eventually, I went mad, starved of answers to the one question that tormented me. I decided that the lack of an answer was the answer I had needed all along, and a bucket of cold, refreshing water poured over me.

I gasped—and with the exhale, all the mysticism I had assigned to the situation dissolved. It had all been my own creation, something to help me survive.

I learned new words to describe what had happened inside me—this time taken from rigid psychological terminology. Planning the new year without shame, I drew a crossed-out heart on a piece of paper and labelled it: the time of reason. And honestly,

it even worked a little. I’m not nobody this year.

 

And well, the candle lit itself again.

 

With all my heart, I wish more graves would appear in this plot, but no one is worth anything if I try to grasp them only through reason. My point of reference, after all, reaches into infinity.

Saturday, February 7th, 2026

Tuesday, January 27th, 2026

Bibliography

 

Szczygieł, Mariusz. Nie ma. Dowody, 2018. Michal, Karel. Straszydła na co dzień. Translated by Dorota Dobrew,

2nd ed., Dowody, 2021. Fischerová, Viola. Afterword to Straszydła na co dzień, by Karel Michal. Translated by Dorota Dobrew, 2nd ed., Dowody, 2021. Fischerová, Viola. Babia godzina. Translated by Dorota Dobrew, Oficyna Wydawnicza ATUT, 2007.

 

Text by Maja Fiebig

Translated by Mikołaj Ozga
Visual by Julia Wieruszewska

Bibliography

 

Szczygieł, Mariusz. Nie ma. Dowody, 2018. Michal, Karel. Straszydła na co dzień. Translated by Dorota Dobrew, 2nd ed., Dowody, 2021. Fischerová, Viola. Afterword to Straszydła na co dzień, by Karel Michal. Translated by Dorota Dobrew, 2nd ed., Dowody, 2021. Fischerová, Viola. Babia godzina. Translated by Dorota Dobrew, Oficyna Wydawnicza ATUT, 2007.

 

Text by Maja Fiebig

Translated by Mikołaj Ozga
Visual by Julia Wieruszewska

Viola Fischerová knew how to love. She loved - in Czech and in Swiss. That was, however, not enough to save her husband from death. Pavel Buksa, known also as Karel Michal, shot himself in his own bed. “Willingly escaped life.” The Czech - with all their humor - are extremely poetic. Pavel shot himself under the influence. That night, the beer, that Viola would meticulously spill or drink not to end up in his hands, reached his mouth. When the doctor arrived, he was still alive. Mr Buksa, are you unhappy? - he asked.

 

*

 

Láska in Czech means love. I often laugh at Czech words. That is just a Polish fashion. We laugh at what we do not understand. Láska is, however, a beautiful term. There is no love without our Polish łaska. Łaska in Polish means grace but it is also forgiveness. I am thinking of a film I saw a few years ago.

It was a discussion club screening. The topic caused a stir. A couple faces the difficulties of a disease – dementia. The ill one wants to die, the healthy one does not agree. The ill one wants to live on their own terms, the healthy one says it is selfish. The ill one wants to leave with memory; the healthy one does not want them to leave. I cried. Love is kind and it forgives. The healthy one lets the other go. Noise in the audience. A couple nearby debates loudly. I would not let you commit suicide; I would look after you until the end. But I would suffer. You would not suffer; I would be right next to you. But I would not remember you.

 

What is important is that I would not forget you.

That is selfish. Suicide is selfish.

Láska - Viola knew both of its meanings.

 

*

 

I wish I could talk to the widow of Pavel Buksa. She died when I was eight. I would like to ask her if she was angry.

 

*

 

I cannot get to you

you are not here

Not dead

Nor alive

And by the kitchen window

on a stool

remains silence with its hands down

and blank stare

and drinks

 

*

 

Pavel Buksa did not have dementia. He did not ask for permission to die. This occurrence was astonishing. Sad. Sad but astonishing. It was also groundbreaking. After over 30 years of poetic silence, Viola found the words. Her poetry book was published in 1993. “Requiem for Pavel Buksa.” It was her first release. A way to come to terms with the loss. There is no anger in these poems. There is emptiness. Peace. Why is there no anger?

 

I will wake up in the morning to brace the walls

Today everything is going to be normal

I will clean up the bottles and newspapers as if they were

not here before

I will sweep the corners

I will breathe on the walls

You will sit in the kitchen

talkative and glowing

It will not make me mad

Today everything is going to be normal

I will become different

so you will be

with a different one

 

*

 

Writing about love is tough. I find it challenging. The topic I cannot write beautifully about. Viola Fischerová’s poems hit me and láska hits me. I think that is because they are so simple. I dislike fireworks. And it is not that I do not like them in love, I just do not like them at all. I cover my ears on the New Year’s Eve not to hear the explosions and howling of dogs. I like silence. I live the peacefulness of Czech mountains. They remind me of love.

 

*

 

I fell in love with the Czech Republic when I was in high school. I reached for Mariusz Szczygieł’s reportages and I fully devoured them. That is also how I came across Viola Fischerová, Pavel Buksa, or rather Karel Michal, and his short story about a dead cat. Thanks to the dead cat they also met each other. At that time, Viola worked at a radio station and decided to create a radio play based on Buksa’s text. Fischerová says she had come to his apartment, and so it remained. The story about a dead pet is part of his collection of short stories “Everyday scarecrows,” released in Poland with the publishing house Dowody and annotated by Fischerová. There, I found a passage about sadness: "I am all your loves and never your loathing because you do not feed it where you should. But since you have already met me, you will always, whether in standing waters or those that flow rapidly, see my deficient reflection." What I would also like to ask the widow of Pavel Buksa is the color of her sadness. Mine is red. Although it is not my sadness that is how I imagine Viola Fischerová’s sadness. I see her sadness as red as blood and lava idly flowing down the slope. I check the symbolism of the color red in different parts of the world.

 

Sadness is red like love and lust in western cultures. Sadness is red like mourning and pain in South Africa.

 

The door to our house

gates to an open wound

The stairs shine

Not a drop of blood

Nor a single speck

Our whole life

lasted sixteen years

and was performed in three rooms

 

*

 

I do not know if Viola felt anger. Maybe I do not even want to know. I know she felt love because I can also feel it. Reading “Requiem for Pavel Buksa,” in every word, I feel love, grace, and something I am unable to name.

Maybe forgiveness?

I will never get to ask her.

 

We will never find out. Láska in Czech means love. As simple as that.

Viola Fischerová knew how to love.

She loved - in Czech and in Swiss.

That was, however, not enough to save her husband from death. Pavel Buksa, known also as Karel Michal, shot himself in his own bed. “Willingly escaped life.” The Czech - with all their humor - are extremely poetic. Pavel shot himself under the influence. That night, the beer, that Viola would meticulously

spill or drink not to end up in his hands, reached his mouth. When the doctor arrived, he was still alive.

Mr Buksa, are you unhappy? - he asked.

 

*

 

Láska in Czech means love. I often laugh at Czech words. That is just a Polish fashion. We laugh at what we do not understand. Láska is, however,

a beautiful term. There is no love without our Polish łaska. Łaska in Polish means grace but it is also forgiveness.

I am thinking of a film I saw a few years ago. It was a discussion club screening. The topic caused a stir. A couple faces the difficulties of a disease – dementia. The ill one wants to die, the healthy one does not agree. The ill one wants to live on their own terms, the healthy one says it is selfish. The ill one wants to leave with memory; the healthy one does not want them to leave. I cried. Love is kind and it forgives. The healthy one lets the other go. Noise in the audience.

A couple nearby debates loudly.

I would not let you commit suicide;

I would look after you until the end.

But I would suffer. You would not suffer; I would be right next to you.

But I would not remember you.

 

What is important is that I would not forget you.

That is selfish. Suicide is selfish.

Láska - Viola knew both of its meanings.

 

*

 

I wish I could talk to the widow of Pavel Buksa. She died when I was eight.

I would like to ask her if she was angry.

 

*

 

I cannot get to you

you are not here

Not dead

Nor alive

And by the kitchen window

on a stool

remains silence with its hands down

and blank stare

and drinks

 

*

 

Pavel Buksa did not have dementia.

He did not ask for permission to die. This occurrence was astonishing.

Sad. Sad but astonishing. It was also groundbreaking. After over 30 years

of poetic silence, Viola found the words. Her poetry book was published in 1993. “Requiem for Pavel Buksa.” It was her first release. A way to come to terms with the loss. There is no anger in these poems. There is emptiness. Peace.

Why is there no anger?

 

I will wake up in the morning to brace the walls

Today everything is going to be normal

I will clean up the bottles and newspapers as if they were

not here before

I will sweep the corners

I will breathe on the walls

You will sit in the kitchen

talkative and glowing

It will not make me mad

Today everything is going to be normal

I will become different

so you will be

with a different one

 

*

 

Writing about love is tough. I find it challenging. The topic I cannot write beautifully about. Viola Fischerová’s poems hit me and láska hits me. I think that is because they are so simple.

I dislike fireworks. And it is not that I do not like them in love, I just do not like them at all. I cover my ears on the New Year’s Eve not to hear the explosions and howling of dogs. I like silence.

I live the peacefulness of Czech mountains. They remind me of love.

 

*

 

I fell in love with the Czech Republic when I was in high school. I reached for Mariusz Szczygieł’s reportages and

I fully devoured them. That is also how

I came across Viola Fischerová, Pavel Buksa, or rather Karel Michal, and his short story about a dead cat. Thanks

to the dead cat they also met each other. At that time, Viola worked at

a radio station and decided to create

a radio play based on Buksa’s text. Fischerová says she had come to his apartment, and so it remained. The story about a dead pet is part of his collection of short stories “Everyday scarecrows,” released in Poland with

the publishing house Dowody and annotated by Fischerová. There, I found a passage about sadness: "I am all your loves and never your loathing because you do not feed it where you should. But since you have already met me, you will always, whether in standing waters or those that flow rapidly, see my deficient reflection." What I would also like to ask the widow of Pavel Buksa is the color of her sadness. Mine is red. Although it is not my sadness that is how I imagine Viola Fischerová’s sadness. I see her sadness as red as blood and lava idly flowing down the slope. I check the symbolism of the color red in different parts of the world.

 

Sadness is red like love and lust in western cultures. Sadness is red like mourning and pain in South Africa.

 

The door to our house

gates to an open wound

The stairs shine

Not a drop of blood

Nor a single speck

Our whole life

lasted sixteen years

and was performed in three rooms

 

*

 

I do not know if Viola felt anger. Maybe

I do not even want to know. I know she felt love because I can also feel it. Reading “Requiem for Pavel Buksa,”

in every word, I feel love, grace, and something I am unable to name.

Maybe forgiveness?

I will never get to ask her.

 

We will never find out. Láska in Czech means love. As simple as that.

Text by Jagoda-Weronika O.

Visual by Michał Gliszczyński

Monday, January 19th, 2026

I should have learned how to swim in the sea that bears her name. But I drown each time it fills my lungs and steals my breath away. Every attempt to draw air pulls me deeper, until there is nothing left of me. 

I live in the past, yet the past outlives me. How many times can one return to a place where no one remains? Through the mist of memory, I search for the last traces of comfort — in vain. 

I hold her hand tightly, because if I tried to let go, even for a second, who would I be without her?

I would have to stop thinking about what it could have been, stop reopening old wounds, stop longing.

I would have to see for myself that there is still hope; that time cannot be stopped, and the past will always linger behind me, forever out of my reach. 

Nostalgia has its own scenery. It is a colourless landscape, where meadows and fields are covered in dense fog. The forest grows still, there are no birds singing, only the soft and monotonous rustling of moss. She is winter in her full power with snowy valleys and frost-laden trees. There is no sun, only greyness and cold, where everything hangs in suspension.

In this landscape, there is a sharp tightening in the heart, a mixture of sweetness, bitterness and sorrow, a feeling born of an ineffable longing, soppiness for which no words seem right. There are many ways to describe nostalgia but the mark that she leaves behind can be spoken with only one word: persistent. Her mark is persistent. 

 

It is a state that persists. It does not wither, it does not burn away, it does not let itself pass unnoticed. We can sense it in the old letters, faded photographs, films and music, which carry their own symbolism and take us back to the times when everything seemed simpler. Nostalgia is not just longing, it is the way we remember. We tend to romanticise the past and summon memories that never truly happened. Sometimes we miss things we never lived, moments we only imagined, tucked away in the cabinets of our deepest dreams.  

 

There is something paradoxical in her, however. Pain and solace. Stillness and movement. Emptiness that gives a sense of fulfilment. 

 

I taste her sweet and bitter on my tongue. An emotional memory of old stages of life — people, places and experiences, all that has shaped and made the person I am today. It stirs the inner notes, makes me stop with absent gaze, as if my soul had been severed from my body and left somewhere far away. Regardless, I silently believe that there is a way to swim in this sea differently: not to let it drown me but to let the memories lift me gently without pain or desire to go back. Perhaps only then, when I finally let go of her hand, the sea in which I have been drowning will allow me to take my first easy breath. 

 

P.S. 

Remember: letting go of her hand will not stop you from going hand in hand. It will not betray your former self, nor will it erase your memories. There is no way to stop feeling and longing. But you already know that there is no other way. Sometimes, the path from awareness to action is long and winding. And painful. There will be no other way. Whatever happened, only you can accept it and only you can forgive it. 

Text by Emma Kanafani

Visual by Julia Walusiak

Saturday, January 10th, 2026

For some reason, the collective tends to visualize love as a tangible contract between two or more people. Wherever this unspoken definition stemmed from, romanticized media, half-true stories, unconscious beliefs, love as a concept has far more depth than any tangible definition. In fact, you never truly know what it is until you experience it... And then you experience it again and know more than you did before... And then you experience it in a different form, and what you thought you knew changes drastically from the first time you believed you’d felt it. Before you know it, you’re four years older, traumatized, and either happy or unhappy with your life. It’s funny how time influences one’s definition of love. You look back at your past experiences and realize how little you knew about the world, yourself, or what was right or wrong. The collective idealization of a “first love” tends to be true in most cases, actually. It’s like a prophecy that eventually fulfills itself, usually when you start learning how to think for yourself outside of what you’ve been taught, the coming-of-age drama. You meet someone and it either feels like peace or hell. Peaceful hell at first sight. Long story short, you end up committing your entire being to a person who seems to hold the missing part of your soul. You feel bound to them because of this. You have no way of verbally defining your feelings, but they become so intense that they consume all boundaries of the 3D world, so you call it love. “I love you with all of my heart and soul” is a common phrase, but when you try to truly understand it, only those who have experienced this peaceful hell will understand what it means to “die for love.” It makes you illogical, because the concept of love isn’t materialistic. The funniest thing about love is how it can erase itself. This is when you start questioning everything you know, usually followed by an existential crisis that slips casually into your life as you grow older. Time is a blessing in disguise. The best part about a relationship is the learning. You look back at the person you once imagined yourself “dying for in the name of love,” and you laugh a little because it feels like a distant memory. The intensity of that commitment vanishes two years later.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And then you ask yourself: Did I really love this person? Did they really love me? But the answer is something you already know and still can’t verbalize. Something the collective fails to disclose is that feeling is truth. Just like it’s a fact that I'm sitting in my uncomfortable chair writing this now, it’s a fact that my ass hurts and my hand is cramping. The feeling is real, but I won’t feel it as soon as I finish. And even if I look back on this moment and think that I could have typed on my computer instead, it doesn’t matter because I didn’t. I wrote with a pencil. When you’re seventeen and tangled up with a man who feeds you alcohol and contradicting statements about how he would die for you and kill you at the same time, you can thank God for loving him and moving on because the timeline forced you to. And if you’re smart enough, you’ll know that you can consciously choose to forget while still knowing that the feeling served its time. Then, you’ll meet someone who completely changes the trajectory of what you once thought you knew, and you’ll repeat the cycle.

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